In previous posts, I’ve talked about how to be cohesive, or at the very least, civil with your kids’ biological…
Valentines day is for the lovers – lovers of the souls of others’ children
I just wanted to quickly share this idea and suggest that it may be a great way to establish a…
Prize Fighter
I’m here to tell you that you are not alone in feeling that way and to not measure your level of “success” against someone else’s story. We all have our own story that will lead us to a peaceful place. Keep on keepin’ on.
Be Kind Please Rewind
I had two little boys that liked to run and jump over things and then pretend to shoot at each other. I used to try and hover over them and make sure they wouldn’t get hurt and it always ended in me screaming “I have to return you to your mother in the condition I found you in!”. Do yall have any idea how terrifying it is to have two little lives in your hands that DON’T belong to you and the co-owner don’t particularly like you at the time? That’s stressful! Praise God it’s not that way now.
To my Boys Bonus Mom….
Originally posted on Perfectly Blended:
I could talk forever and never have the right words to tell you what I want…
Say One More Thing About My Momma…
Let me ask you something. If you have even a decent relationship with your own mother, if some stranger started behaving in a threatening manner toward her, would that offend you or cause you to be cautious around that person? I think a lot of us would down right act out if someone even looked at our momma sideways. Yet, I expected that my relationship with the boys should be completely separated from their loyalty to their mother.
3 Guaranteed Strategies for Stepmoms to Shut down Bio-Mom For GOOD
…you hear horror stories about mother-in-laws, ex-wives, and new wives constantly. Movies, articles and blogs (like this one) have been made about these things. There are entire online communities dedicated to dealing with these types of relationships. Sadly, it’s become a normal part of modern culture.